Feel undervalued? Here's How To Tell Your Partner?
Happy Valentine’s day, AWJP fam! Juancho is back here and we’re answering some of your burning questions about love, relationships, and everything in between that you’ve sent on Instagram. Whatever status you are in your love life, we’ve got you covered.
Do you find communication in a relationship easy? When does it begin to become difficult?
I think it only gets hard when you kind of focus on your own thing. Try to understand and empathize your partner, your spouse, then it becomes easy.
What a general relationship needs is that we have Christ in the middle.Because if we don't have God in the middle, it would be impossible for us to reconcile. God is our referee all the time. And we say that with all reverence.Most of the time, by the grace of God alone, we get reconciled.
How do you tell the person that you love that you feel undervalued?
Do it in sandwich method:
Work towards a solution: Once you have expressed your feelings and needs, discuss potential solutions together. Brainstorm ways to improve the situation and find compromises that honor both parties' feelings.
From Episode 181 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “Feel undervalued? Here's How To Tell Your Partner?