Traditional vs Gentle Parenting
Are you tired of hearing only one side of the story? Join us on this newest segment of the podcast as we bring together two guests with different perspectives to share their views and find common ground.
What is traditional parenting? How about modern parenting?
Traditional Filipino parenting underscores respect for authority, with children expected to unquestionably obey their parents and older family members. Discipline is often enforced through strict rules or corporal punishment, emphasizing the importance of obedience and adherence to cultural norms. Family and community play central roles in traditional parenting, with extended family members providing support and guidance. Gender roles are often reinforced, with distinct expectations for boys and girls, and academic achievement is highly valued, viewed as a pathway to success and social mobility.
In contrast, modern Filipino parenting is characterized by a more democratic and child-centered approach, prioritizing open communication, mutual respect, and emotional well-being. Parents recognize the importance of nurturing their children's emotional intelligence and mental health, creating supportive environments where children feel empowered to express themselves. Modern parents also adapt to the influence of technology, establishing boundaries around screen time while leveraging digital resources for educational purposes. They encourage independence, critical thinking, and inclusivity, fostering environments where children can explore their interests and embrace diversity.
Methods of Discipline
Traditional parenting:
Modern parenting:
Pros and Cons
Pros of Traditional Parenting:
Cons of Traditional Parenting:
Pros of Modern Parenting:
Cons of Modern Parenting:
Which parenting style should we use?
The most effective parenting style for kids nowadays is one that combines elements of both traditional and modern approaches, tailored to the individual needs of the child and family dynamics. This balanced approach acknowledges the benefits of structure, discipline, and respect for authority inherent in traditional parenting, while also embracing the importance of open communication, empathy, and autonomy promoted by modern parenting.
The goal of parenting is to nurture and support children in becoming responsible, compassionate, and well-rounded individuals capable of thriving in the world.
From Episode 4 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “Traditional vs Gentle Parenting Common Ground Ep. 4”