Should You Quit Your Goal Already?
Hopeful Optimism or Straight-up Delusion?
When should you quit? How do you know if it's still worth fighting for? Our goals can either strengthen and catapult us into success, or it could be the one thing that's keeping us bogged down. How can we tell the difference? Joyce and Aaron answer all these questions on this episode of Shot of Sanity.
Failing to Reach Your Goals
Both of them had these big goals that they needed to give up but eventually, they learned how to pivot these unachieved dreams and make things workable for them.
Sometimes, admit it, we take counterintuitive steps when we’re getting out of hand on the path we made for ourselves. But really, how do we know if it’s time to let go of that dream we’ve been pursuing for the longest time and take a new one? Here are some things we need to check first:
We are not created equal, granted. But though we aren’t equal in skill set, we are created equal in value. Most of the time, we get scared of pursuing something because we already know that there are people who are already doing it better but we have to believe in ourselves and to the power of individuality.
Optimism vs Misapprehension
Where do we draw the line of being stubbornly optimistic vs delusional? If we don’t have that stubbornness, we won’t strive right? So how do we balance these two?
If you’ve been trying to get or achieve a particular goal but you can’t really have it knowing that you’ve done everything, the only thing you need to do now is accept. Life is a constant opportunity for you to grow. If you gave your all to pursue that goal and you didn’t attain it, it’s always like shoot for the moon and you’ll land on the stars. Remember, those stars are just as valuable as the moon because they brought you and made you to what you are right now. Changing your goal is truly human that you shouldn’t be ashamed of. (JP)
Pride is the biggest part of it.
The best thing to do is ask your friends and families because for sure, they have new sets of advice for you. Have an outsider also take a look at the situation as well. They might be seeing something that you don’t. We might be all delusional to some things that are happening in our own lives that we need someone from the outside that will help us assess the situation. And, if you have a goal you keep pursuing and don’t know yet when to stop, ask yourself: “Is my stubbornness driven by pride or by love?” (AA)
Also, trust that God has a plan for your life. Don’t be so afraid of failure and quitting. Don’t be afraid of stubbornly pursuing a goal because at the end of the day, what matters is your life and what you do in it. And whatever you do with it will matter if you put your heart and your love in it, and not operate out of pride. (JP)
From Episode 21 of Adulting with Joyce Pring’s Shot of Sanity: “SHOULD YOU QUIT YOUR GOAL ALREADY?”:
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Episode summary by Chiara
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