Can We Really Find 'The One' Online?

There’s always been a stigma in finding relationships through the web. But because of the pandemic, ‘the new normal’ in meeting people is now online, and it’s a lot easier! On this episode, I and Lucille McCart, APAC Communications Director for Bumble, talk about traversing from traditional dating to online dating.

What is online dating?

Online dating is a method of meeting and connecting with potential romantic or relationship partners through internet-based platforms and websites. It involves creating a personal profile on a dating website or app, where you can showcase your interests, preferences, and characteristics. Other users of the platform can then view your profile and initiate communication if they're interested in getting to know you better.

Here's how online dating typically works:

**1) Profile Creation**

You create a profile on a dating website or app. This involves adding information about yourself, such as your age, location, hobbies, interests, and a description of who you are and what you're looking for in a partner. You might also upload photos to provide a visual representation of yourself.

**2) Messaging and Interaction**

If the other person is also interested, you can engage in conversations through the platform's messaging system. This allows you to get to know each other better and assess whether you share common interests and values.

**3) Getting to Know Each Other**

As conversations progress, you can exchange more information about yourselves, share experiences, and discuss topics that matter to you.

**4) Meeting in Person**

If there's a mutual interest and you feel comfortable, you might decide to meet in person for a date or casual meeting.

**5) Building a Connection**

Through ongoing communication and interactions, you can determine whether there's potential for a deeper connection and a meaningful relationship.

Online dating platforms come in various forms, ranging from general dating websites and apps to more specialized ones catering to specific interests, religions, orientations, and age groups.

It's important to approach online dating with caution and take safety measures, such as meeting in public places for initial meetings and sharing your plans with a friend or family member. While online dating can lead to successful and fulfilling relationships, it's also important to manage expectations and be aware that not every interaction will lead to a perfect match.

“What we’re really fighting against is gender roles.”

— Lucille McCart

What are the advantages to consider?

**1) Access to a Larger Pool of Potential Partners**

Online dating allows you to connect with people from different locations and backgrounds, increasing your chances of finding someone who aligns with your values and interests.

**2) Compatibility Matching**

Many online dating platforms use algorithms and compatibility tests to match you with individuals who share similar interests and values.

**3) Communication and Getting to Know Each Other**

Online platforms provide a space for initial conversations and getting to know each other before meeting in person. This can help establish a connection based on shared interests and values.

Also, take note of the challenges:

1) Misrepresentation

Some individuals may not provide accurate information or photos on their profiles, which can lead to disappointment when meeting in person.

2) Limited Context

Online interactions might lack the nuances of in-person conversations, making it important to communicate clearly and ask meaningful questions.

3) Safety Concerns

Safety precautions are important when meeting someone from the internet. It's crucial tomeet in public places and share your plans with a friend or family member.

Here are tips for successful online dating:

1) Be Authentic

Present yourself honestly in your profile and interactions. Authenticity can lead to more genuine connections.

2) Communication

Engage in meaningful conversations to get to know potential partners better.

3) Safety First

Prioritize safety by meeting in public places for the first few dates and sharing your plans with someone you trust.

4) Set Realistic Expectations

Understand that not every connection will lead to a long-term relationship, and that's okay.

5) Be Patient

Finding the right person can take time. Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of being in one.

Remember that successful online dating, just like any form of dating, requires effort, patience, and an open mind. While some people do find their "one" through online dating, others may need to explore multiple connections before finding a lasting and meaningful relationship.