“I Have A Boyfriend… But I Sent Nudes to Strangers”

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Have you been in this situation. Here’s what you can do:

1)

Acknowledge the Wrongful Behavior

Start by acknowledging that sending nude photos to strangers is not in alignment with your values and principles. Admitting this is the first step towards seeking forgiveness and making things right.

2) Seek Accountability

Confide in a trusted friend, mentor, or pastor about what happened. Having accountability and support from someone you trust can be crucial in your journey towards healing and restoration.

3) End Harmful Behavior

Commit to ending any further communication or interaction with strangers in inappropriate ways, including sending nude photos. Make a firm decision to honor God in your actions moving forward.

4) Evaluate Your Relationship

Reflect on your relationship with your boyfriend. Consider discussing this matter with him honestly and openly if you feel it is appropriate and safe to do so. Transparency and trust are important foundations of a healthy relationship.

5) Be Patient with Yourself

Overcoming struggles and mistakes takes time and patience. Be gentle with yourself as you embark on a journey of repentance, healing, and growth.

Should I tell my boyfriend about it? 

1) Consider Your Intentions

Clarify your intentions for wanting to tell your boyfriend. Are you seeking accountability, transparency, and support from him? Or are you feeling pressured by guilt and seeking relief by confessing?

2) Timing and Approach Financial Independence

If you decide to tell your boyfriend, consider the timing and approach. Choose a private and appropriate setting to have an open and honest conversation. Be prepared for his reaction and allow him time to process the information.

3) Assess the Impact on Your Boyfriend

Think about how your boyfriend might react to this information. Consider his emotional capacity to handle such news and whether he would be supportive and understanding.

4) Prepare for Various Outcomes

Be prepared for different reactions from your boyfriend, ranging from shock and disappointment to understanding and forgiveness. Respect his emotions and be willing to address any concerns or questions he may have.

From Episode 4 of #AskTheTrivinos Adulting with Joyce Pring: “I Have A Boyfriend… But I Sent Nudes to Strangers” #AskTheTrivinos Ep. 4”