Open Communication in Relationships
How do you compromise and harness healthy communication in your relationship? What does it mean to have "open communication"? How do you avoid the blame game, when you are operating on high emotion? Joyce and Juancho answer all of these questions based on their experiences and the things they learned in their relationship.
Juancho and Joyce have been together for years. They have been on a journey of constantly learning to communicate. Juancho described ‘open communication’ as having the need for immense listening, understanding, and not reacting when emotions are high especially. It is more about balancing everything.
For Joyce, open communication is the comfort in the relationship, comfort of actually expressing yourself without the fear of the other person reacting violently.
The simplest thing that I ever learned in our relationship is that sometimes we need to shut up. Shut up until the person tell you to share. On thing I learned from one of our friends is that if it's not against the Bible, if the argument or the situation is not against the Bible, don't sweat it. Don’t make a big deal out of it. If it's something that's not against the Bible, then find your middle ground, don't always think you have doing the conversation. And one thing that you always say is that we're on the same side and we’re not enemies. (JP)
From Episode 57 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “OPEN COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS”
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