The Importance of Human Connection
Simone Heng is a professional keynote speaker, sought-after international MC and former broadcaster. Over her one and a half decade-long career in the entertainment industry, Simone’s job was to build memorable connections with audiences on stage, on air, online and one-to-one. On this episode of the podcast, we talk with the wonderful Ms. Heng about her journey in broadcasting, how she overcame the challenges that came her way, and the work she's been doing in Human Connection, and discovering how profoundly important it is in our lives especially in today's world.
She was raised Australia but went to Asia to study and work. Being in the radio for years, Simone gained everything she thinks she needed about marketing, branding, endorsements. All of these learnings and experiences led to set up her own company and become a professional speaker.
Simone Heng & The Quarter Life Crisis
The crisis started to strike her when she was about 30 years old, feeling like everyone is gathering their life together: settling down and getting married etc. And at that time, she knows that she’s far from those since she still struggles with some family and career problems.
Our household is also such a great factor in shaping us. We most live in an Asian household where we were told to shut up or our ideas were mocked because if not, we are being rude and disobedient. And that trauma crystallizes and stops us from having that kind of outspokenness. But Simone knew that the are some space that our voices will be valued. She then created a community where these people could be safe to find their story, their message and then learn to speak out.
The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel van der Kolk has a lot to do with human connection. There, it talks about how everything that you experienced as a child has a huge impact on you as an adult. So, the way that you speak the way that you carry yourself in public, all of those things are affected by your childhood. But then, because our brains are so neuro-plastic, you're actually able to change that by human connection by coaching and by learning new things. (JP)
Also, this could also affect you physically. There are parts in our body that builds up stress which we should really look at so we can release it. In a Gabor Mate book, it says that the answer to addiction is connection. A lot of people form addictions based on the feeling of unlovability and disconnectedness in their childhood. if you feel sometimes that you're feeling deep, deep disconnection, go and talk to someone because once those issues start to become processed, your life becomes brighter and happier than you could have ever imagined. (SH)
Healing and Human Connection Intertwined
Top 5 Recommended Books by Simone Heng
From Episode 52 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “HUMAN CONNECTION WITH SIMONE HENG”
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Episode summary by Chiara
Soli Deo Gloria!