Time to Ditch 'Toxic Positivity'
A new term has emerged from the ever-fertile soil of social media vernacular - because of the current pandemic that we are dealing with, users have been pleading, arguing, and discussing TOXIC POSITIVITY. But what exactly does it mean? Are we just being too critical of each other, or could this actually be a point for improvement? On this installment of the podcast, Joyce and Aaron dive deep into the differences of healthy and toxic positivity, its pitfalls and borderlines.
The Dark Side of Positive Vibes
Dealing With Toxic Positivity
Sometimes, toxic positivity comes in a place of privilege since people experience different detriments in life. And, everybody operates in different privileges. Do not automatically jump into conclusion that someone is positive because they are privileged. Telling someone that they are toxic positive means that you’re standing also on a certain level of privilege too. People can be uneducated with the negativity, so try and find a way for them to be informed. If they still refuse to accept it, don’t insist it. (AA)
Also, we’re not focusing on the privilege of other people. It’s trying to understand where there are coming from. We don’t deal with trials the same way as others. And as human beings, we have a tendency to expect other people to live the life that we want to live. (JP)
From Episode 26 of Adulting with Joyce Pring’s Shot of Sanity: “ARE YOU GUILTY OF ‘TOXIC POSITIVITY’?
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Episode summary by Chiara
Soli Deo Gloria!