Overcoming Insecurities
Most of us are unaware of our insecurities and we try to mask it with a façade of false strength. But how can we be more self-aware in listening to the voice of self-confidence rather than battering ourselves with the voice of insecurities? Here, Coach Lyqa Maravilla and Joyce Pring discussed how they can just not deal with it, but be friends with it.
We all have this false assumption that everyone’s got it figured out, we don’t have insecurities anymore. And because of the empowerment movement, people think that you don’t have to be insecure about these things anymore. Kasi you’re constantly empowered in our society today. (JP)
How do you conquer insecurities?
Reclaiming Your Power
Understand that it’s just a voice & fill your world with voices that speak against it. (LM)
3 A’s From Joyce Pring
Acknowledge, Accountability, Acceptance
It’s so important that you hear and listen to these things that people say about you, the stories that they tell about you and then differentiate them with the reality that you now have, and that you know is true. (JP)
KEEP IN MIND
You have to be secure in knowing that this too shall pass. Sit with it, feel it but understand that there will be another day coming. You can eventually grow out of it. (LM)
Once you start losing hope, that’s when life really ends. Start conversations with people who love you and whom you can share your insecurities with. Knowing that you have people who can empathize with you is in itself a healing. (JP)
If the people who have experienced the worst kind of traumas have the capacity to step outside of those traumas and become people who are able and eager to conquer them and grow and use those traumas to become better people - then you are capable of taking your insecurities as well and using them for using that can fuel you to become better. (JP)
From Episode 92 of Adulting with Joyce Pring: “OVERCOMING INSECURITIES”: